Road to self improvement

Hello fellow people and welcome to peace’s perspective where I talk about several topics to help you. Today’s topic is about self-improvement. This is something I have trouble with especially during my high schools day. I lost myself in high school trying to figure out myself, i wanted people to like me and I wanted to be seen as a very mature kid. I always said what I wanted people to hear and I wanted to be what people wanted me to be until I realized that I do not know what I want and what my personality is. Finally, thanks to God, my family and some friends, I know know who I am and I was able to improve myself. Now let me help you on your journey on self discovery. LET’S GET INTO IT!!!

PRACTICE SAYING DAILY WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENTS TO YOURSELF

I can’t emphasize this enough because it helped me build my self-esteem and not care what people think about me. Every morning as I wake up, i go to the mirror and even though I might not look the prettiest, i comment on my pretty features and also the features I’m insecure about. Also anytime I face a challenge, I always assure myself that I can do it. SO PEOPLE, LET’S ENCOURAGE OURSELVES AND BUILD OUR SELF-CONFIDENCE AS THIS IS THE STARTING POINT!!

IDENTIFY YOUR WEAKNESSES AND AREAS OF IMPROVEMENT

Now that you have self-confidence that you can improve, you need to write down areas you think you could improve in and you can also ask for advice from trustworthy friends (beware of toxic ones). These friends could tell you things they think is not a good characteristic, there are some characteristics we have that we don’t know are hurting people, so therefore we also need the help of friends and family.

WORK ON THESE WEAKNESSES

This is the hardest step and I could take a long time to complete. It requires a lot of patience, self- discipline and determination. It also makes it easier if you have a support system as they are very useful in helping you through your tough times. I can remember a day where I gave up and accepted that I would never be able to find myself but I had people that talked me out of it and told me to continue trying and I did. I’m so happy about the choice I made and I’m currently happy with myslef

SURROUND YOURSELVES WITH POSITIVE PEOPLE

One thing I needed to do to improve myself was to remove toxic friends from my life as they made me feel bad for myself. This is where the self confidence also place a part, i had the confidence to let people out of my life and not care what they thought about me. Then, i found new friends that support me in a lot of things i do, they also give me constructive criticism to help me improve myself more, and I’m very happy right now. YOU CAN DO THIS!!!

LOOK BACK ON YOUR PROGRESS AND CELEBRATE

Now that the handwork is done, don’t forget to appreciate how far you have come. You can also share your stories with others or help people who also need this advice because there are a lot of people that really need it. SIT BACK AND RELAX TO CELEBRATE YOUR SUCCESS!!!

To conclude this, i want to say you are very beautiful, lovely, and awesome and I hope you improve yourself and find who you are. Just know someone out there cares for you and if you do feel alone, please know that you aren’t alone and I care about your success too. Now, let’s begin our journey of self discovery and please comment your stories, and also what you’d like me to post on this blog. Once again, I love you and see you on my next post. God bless you.